Do not rush to scroll through medical encyclopedias: you will not read about the syndrome of "aunt" in any directory. Although, according to statistics, every second or third woman has all the symptoms on her face: discouragement, grumbling, fatigue, extinct eyes, asexuality and unwillingness to dream. Often, this ailment comes with sadness, despair, moping, boredom, stigma and excess weight. If you noticed such signs in yourself, I dare to disappoint: most likely, you got a "aunt". Of course, you should not put a cross on yourself and be reconciled forever with the role of the housekeeper. Still can be corrected, the main thing – to expel this annoying obese awaited guest from himself. And do it immediately so that she does not sit around and get used to it. For this, by the way, there is a Bible with a few "other" commandments. So, remember these axioms and start acting: "aunts" is not the place!
How not to turn into an "aunt"
Commandment 1. I am a woman, and none of the women's quirks is alien to me. You notice behind yourself, that often you buy something sweet to children, the next unnecessary piece in the house, a gift to the husband. And to myself, when was the last time you bought something? Because it's a pity. And that's wrong! When you think about yourself, pamper yourself, buying beautiful shoes or that lovely blouse, you kill the "aunt" in yourself. After all, you're still th-th. Regardless of age!
Commandment 2. No one owes nothing to anyone. Classics of the genre: I hate to cook (to wash, clean), but I must. And then you wonder where the embittered "aunt" came from. All because you can simply abandon unloved cases, not forcing yourself and not being annoyed because of trivialities at all and all. The reason, psychologists say, should be looked for in childhood: we were told that if you do not know how to cook, you can not keep your husband near you. The heroine of the film "You never dreamed" of the tediousness of the class teacher: "My girl, when you grow up, you will have a husband. You will understand how good it is when a person has a sense of duty, "she replied:" In my opinion, only love has the right to rule everything. " Are there any other arguments?
Commandment 3. What is inside, then outside. When you rejoice in the world, enjoy every moment of life, do not faint over trifles, you know how to notice any small pleasant news, then you become outwardly attractive and charming. It's not for nothing that they say that if you want the world to smile at you, give him a good mood first. Only here "aunts" forget that happy moms have happy children, and happy wives have happy husbands.
Commandment 4. What will people say? Forget about this once and for all. The main thing that you think about yourself. Only that is important. A straight back, an easy gait, a confident look, a raised chin: unless someone doubts that you are a prosperous, impeccable, happy woman? No! Remember: the way others see you is not more than the result of your own thoughts. Check it out!
Commandment 5. Woke up, washed, dressed up, smiled and went to decorate the world. Do you know that the greatest amount of lipstick is used by … women in Arab countries. The question arises: why should they, they are in a veil for days on end? That's it! In our region, a woman powdered-reddens when going to work, on a date, at a business meeting, on a visit and even in a store. But at home with her husband it is normal to sit in a shapeless dressing gown, tattered socks and old slippers: and so loves. At the eastern beauties it's the other way around: at home for the husband – all the best. For outsiders, they are not so prettily, but with a beloved look like queens. Maybe I should take a note?
Commandment 6. Between the cooking of borscht and sex, always choose the latter. Here the border is easy to see: if you want to do this always, everywhere and under any circumstances, is ready to include fantasy, leaf through the "Kama Sutra" in search of new poses or sensations, nothing is lost. But the "aunt" in the lexicon increasingly appear phrases: "I do not want", "headache", "not today", "this week was already." Of course, you can go and cook borscht. That's just a snack, at worst, you can do something else or, in extreme cases, go to any institution catering, if you really want to eat. And now the question: would you like, that your husband was going somewhere for another portion of sex, because he, poor fellow, is starving in his own home? The answer is obvious.
Commandment 7. The call of a woman is not to serve, but to inspire! At school, any teacher likes to read morals a la: "Girls, the main thing – learn how to cook borscht! For whoever you have to marry, IT will in any case want to eat. " And they assured us that from wives who perfectly prepare – they wash – they iron, husbands never leave. However, then every second surprised: and cooked delicious, and ironed well, and washed every day, and my husband still left. And all because you need to remember once and for all: a housewife and a wife – this is not the same thing. The first – thinks only about the economy, she is forever with a scoop and in the apron, she always has no time. The second is the muse of her husband; the only one that inspires and makes us develop, a family think tank that can make the right decisions. In the end, everything that does not enter into a terrible concept called "aunt".
Commandment 8. I am, and this is more than enough! And another such is not present and will not be NEVER! And the fact that you and your loved ones are alive and well are already a great occasion for joy every day! And as soon as this terrific person can kill himself with faked, fictional problems? Are not you ashamed, "aunt"?
If you notice at least some of these terrible symptoms, rather expel the "aunt" and slam densely the door behind her. This can and should be done. The main thing: to allow yourself to continue to enjoy life. Mentally show the language to your inner "aunt" and run … roller-skating. Life is amazing! Share these commandments with your friends – it will certainly help others to fix everything before it's too late!